Way down deep inside your jealousy is a logic that tells you that you can't have the thing you're secretly jealous of that girl for having.
You know you want it, but something has convinced you that YOU CANNOT HAVE IT.
It could be something someone said to you. It could be something you saw. It could be something you believe. Regardless, way you have convinced yourself that the thing that girl has cannot be yours as well and that is a lie.
You can pretty much have anything in this world if you're willing to work for it and so the only thing that's stopping you from getting the thing you're secretly jealous of that girl for having is you. You and your own ideas about the possibility of you having that thing. That logic that says: "You can't have that because..." If you REALLY want that thing it's worth your while to find out why you think you can't have it.
If you're courageous enough to get to this point you might find that there's nothing stopping you from getting this thing...nothing but you. And THAT is what your jealous is hiding way deep inside it. An excuse not to challenge yourself to go for it. A reason to not go for the thing you want because you might fail. You either want it or not. If you do, you'll go for it. If not, you'll be content to remain in your jealousy.
If you chose the former instead of the latter, please know that you're going to have to get out of your own way and remember to dissect your logic from time to time. Oftentimes THAT is the only thing standing in the way of us pursuing our dreams.
With love, Cutie...
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