Dealing with discouragement is challenging stuff. It's one thing to lose, but it's something totally different to pick yourself from said loss.
If you're working on turning a new leaf or improving yourself in any way, you are going to have to get comfortable with getting it wrong.
Failure is an important part of all development. Failure is how we learn what NOT to do. Once we learn what NOT to do, that's when we improve our chances of getting right. Have you ever heard the quote: 'fail your way to success?' That means someone had to fail their way into learning you can't mix electricity with water.
That means someone had to fail their way into learning that playing with fire will eventually get your burned. These are extreme cases, but the fact remains that a ton of failure had to take place before we agreed as a society to obey those social warnings.
The same applies for you. You have your own rules for what works best for you but YOU have to fail your way into knowing those things. So get comfortable being uncomfortable with yourself. And that is how you deal with discouragement. You sit in the discomfort of it, healing your wounds and preparing yourself to try again tomorrow. You got this, Cutie.
With love...
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