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CONSULTATIONS 2024




Welcome to the New Year, Cutie


This is Sanni the creator of The Cutie Booty magazine. This is technically our first time posting for this feature. This feature I speak of is called "Consultations" and consultations is all about listening to sound advice AND the ability to decipher between what advice is good for you and what isn't. I don't expect you to agree with EVERY consultation I share, but I DO hope that you expand you way of thinking and consider the wisdom of Women even if those Women live differently than you.


Not every Cutie was blessed with a support system that taught them life lessons. So we want to create a space for Women to learn from the wisdom and knowledge and lived experience of Women from around the world.


That said, let's get into 12 Consultations I will be working on throughout 2024. I chose 12 because there are 12 months to a year and I believe in focusing on one thing at a time.


When I can focus on one consultation per month, it makes it easier for the knowledge to sink in and become second nature to me. So I want to share these with you.


The Theme for this is 'Stop Playing With Yourself' because I DO be playing with myself and I want to stop that.


Here they go. Hope You Enjoy!



Love,



Sanni



 

P.S.


I'll be returning EVERY MONTH with a deep dive into EVERY Consultation you see in this list. It will look like this:


  1. JANUARY - STOP PLAYING WITH YOURSELF

  2. FEBRUARY - STOP LETTING PEOPLE PLAY IN YOUR FACE

  3. MARCH - STOP LETTING PEOPLE PLAY WITH YOUR TIME

  4. APRIL - STOP UNDERESTIMATING BABY STEPS

  5. MAY - STOP PLAYING WITH YOUR TIME

  6. JUNE - STOP PLAYING WITH YOUR MONEY

  7. JULY - STOP PLAYING ABOUT YOUR ESTATE

  8. AUGUST - STOP PLAYING WITH YOUR WORD

  9. SEPTEMBER - STOP PLAYING WITH YOUR HEALTH

  10. OCTOBER - STOP PLAYING WITH YOUR POTENTIAL

  11. NOVEMBER - STOP PLAYING WITH YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM

  12. DECEMBER - STOP PLAYING WITH THEM VICES


So be sure to pull up and read what Cuties from around the internet and around the world are talking about!


See you THIS MONTH for a DEEP DIVE into the 'Stop Playing With Yourself' Consultation!


 

CONSULTATIONS FOR 2024


ONE - Stop Playing With Yourself



Find out what you're good at and use that to increase your income and/or change your situation for the better. Stop being scared to stand out. There is always going to be people that don't like you don't let that be what stops you from showing up your best self in every space your occupy. Your attitude really does determine your altitude so work on that this year. If you tend to be negative, don't beat yourself up about that. Accept it BUT find out why you think like that and CONSIDER a new way of thinking this year. We become what we think about and this applies to all human beings including you. Stop playing with yourself and meditate on the Woman you really want to be!



 


TWO - Stop Letting People Play In Your Face



Acknowledge and address negative behaviors that are harming you in your relationships and do so respectfully. If you are uncomfortable doing this then take baby steps toward getting over that fear. You should aim for relationships that have room for all parties to communicate concerns about behaviors.



 


THREE - Stop Letting People Play With Your Time



If the event is supposed to end at 5pm, it is perfectly fine for you to respect your time and leave that event at 5pm. If the event Host explains that the event will run later than the original time you signed up for, it is perfectly fine to charismatically explain that you still have to leave at 5pm as that is the time you scheduled for yourself. You want to get in the habit of respecting your time as that is an excellent message to other people that they must respect your boundaries in the same fashion or risk not being able to work/play with you.



 


FOUR - Stop Underestimating Baby Steps



Learn about the power of 'Baby Steps.' The term 'Baby Steps' means exactly what you think it means. It means small steps like the ones a baby makes when they first start walking. You can use the same concepts with regards to your goals. Take small steps toward achieving your deepest desires. It doesn't matter how small. Just identify a small goal, create a plan to achieve it, and then work on that plan until you do. The feeling of accomplishment will empower you so much that you will want to take another baby step in another area and before you know it, you will have achieved your goal! That's the power of the 'baby step' Cutie.



 


FIVE - Stop Playing With Your Time



Research Time Management and how it can transform your daily schedule. It's powerful. Study Executive Women who employ time management in their schedules and use what works for you.



 


SIX - Stop Playing About Your Money



Learn about money. Learn about YOUR money. Get your financial house in order. Where are you at and be honest. Don't be scared. Just be honest so that you can create a game plan to clean your stuff up. Clean up your debts. Start investing. Prepare for retirement. Plan that trip girl! Get into personal finance so that you can enjoy the financial fruits of all your hard work on your personal development.



 


SEVEN - Stop Playing with Your Estate



Do you have a will? Do you know what a Living Trust is? Do you know what probate is? Do you have retirement through your job and if so do you know what to do if you leave that place of employment? Let's find out about all of that!


 


EIGHT - Stop Playing with Your Word



If you say something, back it up. If you say you're going to be somewhere BE THERE and if you cannot make sure you negotiate an appropriate reimbursement for all parties involved. Your word is your bond. You create your personal brand (and your reality, honestly) with your word so value your word like you value your money because the way life works, you might end up in a situation where your word is the only thing you have to rely on!



 


NINE - Stop Playing with Your Health



2 words. Baby Steps. The trick to sticking with working out EVEN IF you fall off the wagon is engaging in exercises and activities that are actually FUN to you. That's the one surefire way you'll always come back to it because you'll genuinely enjoy it. At the VERY LEAST work on finding and deciding on 3 activities you're willing to incorporate into your exercise plan.




 


TEN - Stop Playing With Your Potential



Don't be afraid to take a class. Don't be afraid to stretch your potential this year. Yes it's scary. It's scary AF. But you know what's scarier? The thought of another year passing by and you not even being willing to get just a. LITTLE uncomfortable for the sake of touching your desire. Even if you don't do anything else find out what's scaring you SO MUCH that it's stopping you from pursuing life and reality you really want.



 

EVELEN - Stop Playing With Your Support System



Clean House. Reward loyalty. Make sure your team/circle/crew and the vibes they bring are aligned with the Woman you are trying to become. You don't have to be disrespectful when you are cutting ties. You don't have to be a pushover and spare people's feelings for the sake of a relationship that is not serving you. Research ways to cut ties. Research ways to show love to the ones who have been there for you in your times of need. Cut and pull in accordingly, Cutie.



 


TWELVE - Stop Playing with them Vices



We all got em. But not all of us work on controlling them. Life can be so challenging. We understand that and make room for that BUT we have a penthouse suite worth of room for improvement. Self-Control is the name of the game. And we're not talking about addiction. That is something that needs professional help and if that is where you are then work on that this year. Regardless of where you are if you could work on limiting just ONE VICE this year you'll be miles ahead of where you were a year ago.



 

THAT'S IT!




That's it Cutie.


Those are the 12 Consultations to Consider for 2024


Come back EVERY MONTH for a Deep Dive into EVERY consultation and to help you stick to it (if you choose to do so) throughout the year! Good luck and LET'S WORK!


-Team The Cute










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